Survivor or victim, it's not all just in the name

Bad or good parents. It is all what stands between a pedophile and a victim, according to the pedophiles. It's not their fault, it is that of parents and victims. But it is really something to ease their conscious is it not?

First of all, you can not blame a kid for the faults a parent can make. They are not the ones making those mistakes. The whole thing with being a kid, is that you are not carrying the burden adults need to carry. You have time to learn and to explore. To grow into the person you are becoming. You are a process still. Being molded and shaped through the experiences of life and the lessons of those surrounding you. With that also comes the shaping of a thing called trust.

Hormones and alike, come late to make it so that sex is not an issue in your younger years. And then there it is: sex is not the first thing in mind for them when they encounter a pedophile. They like you yeah but not for what you can give them, but for what they get. Attention. That is all they want. A form of love, not lust. The unconditional kind, without lust or any kind of romance. It is not a relationship of that kind they want. A confident, an equal, on their level, not the adult level. They are not flirting with you. And they are not the blame for your misconceptions.

And it is not when we rebel against your teachings of secrecy, that we become a victim. That is when we stop being a victim and start being a survivor. When we rise up despite of you all trying to bring us down. And we resist you. And your words that make no sense. We do not want your lies. So feel free to lie yourself, I am sure you are now believing that you are not the blame. But you are the only one that believes this. You can not force us anymore, cause we have become the force. The force that will bring you all down.

~*Psychotica*~